Clergyman's

A heightened control of the affects, developed in society and learned by the individual, and above all a heightened degree of autonomous affect control, was needed in order for the world-picture centred on the earth and the people living on it to be overcome by one which, like the heliocentric world-picture, agreed better with the observable facts but was at first far less satisfying emotionally; for it removed human beings from their position at the centre of the universe and placed them on one of many planets circling about the centre.
- Norbert Elias

I wish you all the pleasurable excitement one can have without hurting others and one's own dignity.
- Norbert Elias

But at that particular stage in the development of these more object-related than self-related conceptual instruments for exploring extra-human nature, it was apparently not possible to include in the investigation, and to reflect upon, this civilizational shift itself, the move towards stronger and more ""internalised"" self-control that was taking place within people themselves. What was happening to human beings as they increased their understanding of nature remained at first inaccessible to scientific insight. It is not a little characteristic of this stage of self-consciousness that the classical theories of knowledge representing it are concerned far more with the problems of the object of knowledge than with the subject of knowledge, with object-perception than with self-perception.
- Norbert Elias

The psychogenesis of the adult make-up in civilized society cannot, therefore be understood if considered independently of the sociogenesis of our ""civilization."" ... Individuals, in their short history, pass once more through some of the processes that their society has traversed in its long history.
- Norbert Elias