“When you have no choice, you have no discontent either.”
— Vivek Shanbhag
“Silence descended on the house. [….] Amma must have sensed that this was the sort of silence that, left unchallenged, could consume the family from within.”
— Vivek Shanbhag
“Amma and i went to each house to tell them we were leaving. They all said, ‘Don’t forget us. Keep visiting.’ At the age I was then, this seemed absurd. i had grown up among them – how was it even possible to forget these people? Now I see what they meant.”
— Vivek Shanbhag
“That single moment’s intensity hasn’t been matched in my life before or since. A woman I didn’t know had chosen to accept me, in body and mind. Perhaps it is this instant that forms the basis of traditional marriage—a complete stranger is suddenly mine. And then, I am hers, too; I must offer her my all. I want her to wield her power over me as an acknowledgment of my love. The rush of those feelings all at once is too much to describe. Language communicates in terms of what is already known; it chokes up when asked to deal with the entirely unprecedented.”
— Vivek Shanbhag
“Amma and Malati called her a beggar, a whore, and it was clear from the disbelief on her face that she had never been spoken to in such manner. [….] On that day I became convinced that it is the words of women that deeply wound other women.”
— Vivek Shanbhag