“When you go to war, both sides lose totally.”– Yoko Ono Related Quotes “War is not the answer, because only love can conquer hate.”– Marvin Gaye “The grim fact is that we prepare for war like precocious giants, and for peace like retarded pygmies.”– Lester B. Pearson “My mother was the first woman in the county in Indiana where we were born, in Jay County, to have a college degree. She was educated as a pianist and she wanted to concertize, but when the war came she was married, had a family, so she started teaching.”– Twyla Tharp