“We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same.”– Carlos Castenada Related Quotes “Why does a woman work ten years to change a man’s habits and then complain that he’s not the man she married?”– Barbra Streisand “What I work hard at doing is staying on a path of being kind and showing and proving that I’m a good person to society. That’s hard. The talent, that’s a gift. I just came here like that.”– Erykah Badu “A good man often appears gauche simply because he does not take advantage of the myriad mean little chances of making himself look stylish. Preferring truth to form, he is not constantly at work upon the facade of his appearance.”– Alanis Morissette