“If you want to be a doormat you have to lay yourself down first.”— Oscar Wilde Related Quotes “The real tragedy of life is not the fear of darkness, but it is to conform and follow the darkness in spite of fear.”— Debasish Mridha “In the City of Light, the stars are blind. Our constellations do not reside in the skies.”— RJ Arkhipov “Don’t tell me my writing is misogynistic or anti-feminist just because I or my heroines like to be controlled in the bedroom and find great satisfaction and freedom with it. That is the most anti-feminist statement I have ever heard. Feminism is all about letting women be who THEY want to be. Not how YOU want them to be…I am both a feminist AND a submissive in my sexual fantasies and reality. You are the one who is anti-feminist who tells me I can’t be.”— R.B. O’Brien