“Let’s quit trying so hard to be some version of a normal we’ve never really been.”
— Scott Stabile
“The fact that you don’t realize how wonderful you are only makes you more wonderful.”
— Scott Stabile
“Let them judge you.Let them misunderstand you.Let them gossip about you.Their opinions aren’t your problem.You stay kind, committed to love, and free in your authenticity.No matter what they do or say,don’t you dare doubt your worthor the beauty of your truth.Just keep on shining like you do.”
— Scott Stabile
“So much possibility lives within the beauty of your authenticity. Be real.”
— Scott Stabile
“We can disagree with one another without being raging, judgmental, spiteful, self-righteous lunatics. Can’t we?”
— Scott Stabile
“After so many years struggling to keep up with you, I finally realized we’re not even running the same race.”
— Scott Stabile
“less apathy,more empathy.”
— Scott Stabile
“I keep forgetting how important it is to just be still sometimes. Without a phone, or a TV, or a friend. Alone. Quiet. Connected to nothing, and everything, all at once. Undistracted”
— Scott Stabile
“In acceptance, I am grounded. In vulnerability, I am strong. In love, I am whole.”
— Scott Stabile
“I can’t apologize for who I am any more. Even better, I have no desire to.”
— Scott Stabile
“I won’t stop until I can look at myself in the mirror in love with the person I see.”
— Scott Stabile
“Love is not blind.Love sees everything and says yes to it all.”
— Scott Stabile
“No” works just fine as a complete sentence. You don’t have to explain yourself.I said no, then stopped talking.”
— Scott Stabile
“Just because you don’t like something doesn’t mean it’s bad.”
— Scott Stabile
“So many powerful, inspirational, insightful, hopeful and connected speeches today. It’s been a joy to feel the energy of the women’s marches all over the country and world. Feeling optimistic and energized.”
— Scott Stabile
“Just remember to say THANK YOU sometimes, for all of these everyday extraordinary gifts.”
— Scott Stabile
“If you need to scream, find a safe place, then scream.”
— Scott Stabile
“Shame lies. All the time. About everything. Don’t believe your shame.”
— Scott Stabile
“I will forever remind you that you are gifted, strong and beautiful, exactly as you are. Will you forever remind yourself, too?”
— Scott Stabile
“You are all kinds of beautiful and I love you like crazy.”
— Scott Stabile
“I have yet to figure out a better way to combat hate than to love harder.”
— Scott Stabile
“You can forget how to hate, but you can never forget how to love.”
— Scott Stabile
“Sheep sheep are adorable.Human sheep, not so much.Think for yourself, for flock’s sake.”
— Scott Stabile
“My love and anger are in deep conversation these days, teaching and learning from one another. I’m doing my best to stay open to all of it.I’m curious to see what love does with all my anger.”
— Scott Stabile
“at last he understood that he has always been forgiven and worthy of love,and that no one could take that from him, that not even he could take that from himself.”
— Scott Stabile
“We can’t always know why things happen the way they happen, or why a person makes the choices they do. Knowing why isn’t necessary to move forward, unless we make it so.You may never find out why. Don’t let that keep you from moving on with your life.”
— Scott Stabile
“Love doesn’t pity, nor does it resent. Love understands that, no matter our circumstances, we are all equal. We are all the same. We are all worthy of Love.Some have it harder than you. Some have it easier than you. Love them equally.”
— Scott Stabile
“Don’t count on cheerleaders once you start living a life more reflective of your truth. They may not want to do somersaults and backflips for your awakening, not when they’re still asleep. Don’t let that stop you. Most of us have only been trained to cheer for conformity, to commend those who are just like us. But aren’t you bored of being congratulated for fitting in? Aren’t you tired of ignoring your heart’s requests?Don’t wait for cheerleaders. Be grateful if they show up, but you show up regardless, with or without them.You will never be defined by the reception you get from others, only by the truth with which you receive yourself. Be your biggest cheerleader. Love yourself. And applaud every single step you take toward truth.”
— Scott Stabile
“The more accepting I’ve become about all the pieces of myself—even the crazed, hysterical ones—the more relaxed I’ve become with who I am.And then one day you figure out how to be more peaceful with all of your hysteria, and suddenly you’re not as hysterical so often.”
— Scott Stabile
“Your past and your pain will certainly impact you,but they don’t have to define you. You get to write your own definition.”
— Scott Stabile